Relevant Reasons
Why A Couple May Not Bear Children
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By
The Man Who Saw God Face To Face
Raphael Okechukwu Nweze
The End Justifies The Means, In Some Cases
The world is in the end time. That means that there are little or nor chances for reincarnation. Therefore, everyone should endeavour to make heaven in this present lifetime.
Usually, child upbringing has a lot of distractions that come with it. The baby is either crying, making noise or trying to do some foolish things and the parents are busy keeping it in check.
Frequently, the baby is carried about, either because it has not started walking or because he cannot move fats enough.
Now and then, and here and there, he is either demanding for something or is about to reach out its hand to grab what he should not touch. Hence, it keeps the parents always at alert.
In other words, the parents are living multiple lives at the same time. The mother is living her own life and that of her husband. At the same time, she is also living the life of a baby.
All these things are the cares and worries of everyday life, and there are distractions to spiritual growth.
Life in spirit demands: attention, devotion, quiet times, meditation and sacrifice. All these are contrary to the demands of child upbringing.
At the night, which is one of the best times for spiritual experience, growth and practice, the baby may not be quiet or silent. Sickness may demand that the parents keep awake for long hours, or the soul of the parent, which is about to leave the body for astral travel is soon distracted from that very important journey and experience.
During their childish days, children cause a lot of distraction by running about, by shrieking, by noisy plays, by quarrelling or by fighting.
Besides, the parents need to wash heir dresses and cook their foods; take them to hospital, to the school or escort them to places.
Apart from all these problems, the payment of school fees, hospital bills, provisions for regular meals and daily expenses serve as silent burden to the parents, which may keep the parents unhappy or disturbed for a while. Both unhappiness and disturbances are hindrances to spiritual growth.
By engaging in all these duties, which are everyday occurrences, the parents are denied the times and opportunities for spiritual practice and growth. They end up not being qualified to attain heaven. They have to reincarnate again into the world, because that is where they are fit to stay.
Whoever that is married and blessed with children,
should thank the Lord.
Let the person, who has no child, be satisfied,
because he has lost nothing.
In spirit and in the heavens,
all are simply brothers and sisters.
Actually, parents do not beget children,
because everyone comes down to the earth from heaven,
where he is already in existence before being born here on earth.
This world is like a theatre – an auditorium,
and all mankind are the actors on the stage.
39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. 40 But she is happier if she remains as she is, according to my judgment — and I think I also have the Spirit of God. 1 Corinthians 7:39-40
Other Reasons Why A Couple May Not Have Children
1. Biological factors, which include problems with ovulation, hormonal imbalances, blocked fallopian tubes and sperm disorder.
2. Psychological disorder like depression and stress, which can reduce libido in both male an female, and can result in irregular changes in hormone levels. Hormones are the chemicals that are produced by the body, which chemicals perform regulatory functions in the body.
3. Spiritual reasons. Examples of spiritual factors are
The patient is not responding to drugs.
The cause of a sickness is unknown. The doctors cannot identify the cause of a sickness.
A. Inability to get pregnant when the required body system is in order.
b. Interferences or hindrances cause by the demons, evil spirits, ghosts, witches etc.
d. being childless may be the best portion for a couple so that they can devote their life to spiritual growth. Generally, people reject and neglect this very opportunity due to spiritual blindness and misleading religious leaders. You should know that all the money, wealth or possessions in this earthly life are irrelevant in heaven. The earth is temporal, but the heaven is permanent. Therefore, whoever chooses earthly life or neglects the spiritual dimension of life because or earthly possessions and honours makes himself a wretched ma, even so for eternity.
Deficient Nutrition
According to Divine plan for the world
Attack and blockage by the evil spirits, which include demons, mermaids, ghosts, witches and black energies.
Frustration by personal enemies.
Curses inherited according to lineage.
General ignorance about family and marriage issues. For example, in a case study, the married people did not know that they should sleep together in order to get children. In another case, the married couple may not know what to do in a given situation. An example was a girl, who got pregnant out of wedlock. Because of shame and gossiping, she always sat down, bending forward in order to make the stomach not to protrude forward, so that people would not notice the bulging stomach. I had to call her attention to the damage she is doing to the baby in the womb. She took correction, but then it was a bit too late. She was pregnant of twins, and she lost one baby due bad sitting position.